By Jahnvi Kadia
It’s really difficult to find a true friend in the world of where people are just connections to us. When I look besides me I always feel these all are connections, one’s the work is done there won’t be anything between us. The moment I think they can be my friends, the connections pops up in my mind saying “if you ruin your connections you will be left out and Noone will help you when you are in need”.
People relie on connections. In universities we make connections with senior so we can get referral to good companies in future, to our TAs so that we can get good grades, to our classmates so during the group work they can take care of the work load and deadlines. My point is where is that true friendship? Where you can talk to them without worrying about them judging you related to your grades, status or salary!! We keep silent thinking the other person will judge us or if not then the worse is they will stop favouring us. We ad humans depend on connections more rather than true friend.
It’s us who wants a true relation, but also believes more in connection relationships because they are easy to maintain as their is only expectations no real feelings or boundings. Favouring a connection is easier than maintaining a long term of friendship around 10 years.
It’s difficult to find a friend whom you can relie on that he won’t judge you and you can share all your things without being afraid that he will share your secrets with others. Here people spend maximum of their free time in reels or youtube videos because they feel at peace seeing the fake world rather than facing the real world were they can’t find the real ones. The truth is we try to find the true ones in the fake world!
If you have found one or you already have it you are comparatively luckier person!!